Some of you who follow me on social media were less interested in the juice part of my juice-fast photos and more interested in my hair. Some of you were loving the bangs, a few of you thought the new dark color looked great and the majority wanted to know….had I cut it? or was it just pulled back? No one could be sure. So I’m taking to the blog to set the record straight, and bring you a fashion-related post for 2015.
I’m still rocking the bangs I got cut almost 2 years ago, I didn’t add any color to my hair (to be fair…I think the Instagram filter made it look extra dark), but YES….I did cut it. I big time cut it.
I am not in the least bit the girl who spends time on her hair or makeup. I attempt to look somewhat cute and up-to-date, but only if it isn’t difficult and doesn’t take a whole lot of time or effort. About 5 years ago, I found a hair stylist I really liked and started getting haircuts on a somewhat regular schedule which was a pretty big deal in my world. And then, in March of 2013…I took a big step and cut bangs…coincidentally on the same day that Mary-Hall got bangs as well. Great minds, and long-time friends, think alike, apparently, even 7 hours apart.
I don’t know quite what got into me, but I went for a regularly scheduled haircut appointment the other day and decided I wanted some thing a little bit different. I’d kind of fallen in love with the look that Taylor Swift has been sporting lately (no matter your opinions on her music, her dating life, or her recent move to New York, you gotta admit, she always looks fantastic.) and wondered if I could pull off something similar.
But as tends to happen when I hop in the chair, I got a case of hair-fright. I got a cut, but just a slightly shorter version of what I had. Still cute, but in my mind, it kind of looked like I went half-way. So I made another appointment 4 days later and went in and Got. It. Cut. My stylist was armed with a file of Pinterest hair photos and assured me that the “Lob” (thats the “long bob”) was totally what was coming in for 2015. And it’s true. Everywhere I look, I’m seeing images like this of varying lengths. On commercials, on internet clothing-store websites, in my neighborhood coffee shops.
As I scrolled through her photos, I came across the last one above that totally sealed the deal. “Yes, please, can you make me look like that?” All in all, I took off about about 8 inches. The floor of the salon looked like a small herd of guinea pigs had gathered at my feet. I had that same “I love it, I hate it, I love it again” reaction that I experienced when I cut my bangs. All my family and close friends seemed to be of the opinion that “it’s super cute but it’s drastic and weird to see it on you” which was how I felt too. But the more I wear it, the more I love it. It’s more labor – intensive styling – wise than my old haircut, BUT…that’s not really a deal breaker. Besides, I never really “fixed” my old hairstyle, and when I did….it certainly didn’t “keep” well. This new style takes a little time after I wash it, but then it basically holds it’s style until I wash it again which is HUGE. No more throwing my hair on top of my head in a half-ponytail, half bun and pinning my bangs back with 80 bobby pins. I feel put-together even if I’ve got on pjs which is nice….because, well, I like wearing pjs. So here’s to short hair and looking sassy in 2015.
Also, for anyone interested in doing a similar cut, here’s a peek at my styling-routine. I wash my hair, towel dry and spray with a generous amount of Bumble and Bumble’s “Tonic Lotion Primer.” Then I work through a nickle sized blob of B&B “Grooming Creme” and brush my hair straight to make sure all the product is worked in. I blowdry my bangs first using a brush and pushing from one side to the other to give some body. Then I blowdry the rest of my hair…I divide it into locks and twist each lock into a tight strand and dry it. (At this length, it really doesn’t take that long.) Once my hair is mostly dry (with a hint of wave to it) I twist the locks again, spray each with surf spray, fluff it out and blowdry on low anything that isn’t already completely dry. If you want a stronger curl/wave, I’d suggest following up with a one inch barrel curling iron or curling with a flat iron afterwards.
Two Novembers ago my dear friend Jessica and her husband came to visit us. Jessica has home decor style oozing out her very pores and so I naturally mentioned to her that I was stumped on what to hang above my desk in our office/music room/library. She suggested that I needed a colorful painting and showed me some floral pieces online by a favorite artist of hers that I loved but couldn’t even begin to afford. But Jess was completely unphased and said she’d painted a similar piece for her house…what colors did I like? She bet she could make me one. Barely 3 days after she got home, a gigantic package showed up on my front porch with a beautiful and bright painting inside. I loved it and immediately hung it above my desk. It made me smile every day as I worked.
Ever since then, I have wanted to make some sort of whitewashed frame to make the happy painting pop even more against the chocolate brown walls. But as I’m sure many of you have experienced, it just sort of sat at the top of my “to do” list and never got done. Until I had the trifecta of perfect circumstances that made me put my intentions into action. First, I had a rare free afternoon. Second, Keith had a few yard projects he wanted to knock out so I was hunting for a DIY to do and third, we’d just gotten some Hatch Show Prints framed on sale at Michael’s so we were in the picture-hanging mood.
I knew that I wanted something with a slightly whitewashed appearance. Something similar to when my friend Amy and I made a decorative shelf for her bathroom. I also really love the look of variegated planks (like on our chicken coop) so I decided that instead of doing a frame around the painting, I’d do one behind it out of slats of wood. I wanted something a little sleeker than palate wood and not as heavy as lumber, so I headed to Michael’s craft store and straight to the model-plane making aisle where I chose 6 slats of ultra-light weight Balsa wood. I got lucky because my painting was 20″ x 20″ and the Balsa wood slats were 4″ x 24″ inches which meant that 6 of them made a 24″ x 24″ square leaving 2 inches on each side of the painting. The boards were $3.49 each so with tax the wood for the project cost less than $25.
I laid out all the planks on a sheet of plastic and decided to go with a light grey paint instead of the minwax stain that I’d used on the shelf project as I felt like it complimented the white flower accents better than a stain would have. However, I diluted the paint with water to it wouldn’t be so thick and would give more of a stain appearance than a paint appearance. It worked really well and I painted all the boards with two thin coats.
The hardest part about the project by far was centering the boards on the back of the painting. I laid the painting face down and then measured the slats and the painting to make sure that all sides were equal. Then starting in the middle and working out, I nailed each slat to the wooden frame of the canvas using tiny tacks and a hammer. (Make sure your nails are tiny as balsa wood splits easily.) Then I attached a picture hanger to the back (we had one in the shed, but they are only a dollar or two if you have to buy one) and voila!
The Hatch prints we’d gotten framed (that I mentioned at the top of the post) were originally intended to be hung in our living room which has gotten a bit of a facelift as of late. But as seems to often happen with redecorating, hanging one print turned into an all-out fruit-basket-turnover of wall art throughout the house. While I loved having the painting from Jess above my desk, I also wanted it somewhere that everyone would see it…not hidden in my office. So we gave it a home on the most prominent wall in our living room where it will make everyone who comes through our doors smile. Hanging next to it is my Nickel Creek reunion tour Hatch Print from the Ryman show, while my Eucharisteo painting adorns the wall to the left and a wood-mounted photo of a piano by local photographer Eden Frangipane (it’s the first photo you see if you click here) hangs on the wall opposite. And our living room is now officially the happiest place to be. There are definitely perks to having wallflowers.
One of the things I most love about Nashville is the creative community and nontraditional work atmosphere that I’m surrounded by. So many people here are involved in the arts or events or some other occupation where work doesn’t mean sitting behind a desk from 8-5, which often leads to really interesting collaborations and projects.
When Keith and I got married just over four years ago, our dear friend Hannah Blanton (Hannah Elaine Photography) was an easy pick to hire as our wedding photographer. Not only is she a kind and fabulous individual, but her photos capture moments in an almost photo-journalistic way. We were thrilled with the images from our big day..all those special moments frozen forever…and my sweet friend Jessica even hired Hannah for her wedding the next year (a photo of Jess and all her bridesmaids is still the first photo that pops up when you click on Hannah’s page.)
Hannah and her husband John are often our partners in crime for everything from canoeing to improptu trips to the art museum (John was one of Keith’s roommates back in both of their bachelor days) so when she needed a shoot location (and a few “models”) Keith and I were game to offer up our backyard and gather a few friends. It wasn’t the first time that we’d had a wedding-related-backyard-dinner party: just a couple of years ago we hosted the wedding rehearsal dinner of our dear friends Bubba & Erin, so naturally we were thrilled that they could be part of this shoot! It was a sentimental nod to their big day and great to catch up. Hannah’s husband John and our good friend Keely sat in as “models” as well and the six of us had a blast sitting around our table in the backyard while Hannah snapped photos right and left.
I just thought I’d pass along some fun photos for you to enjoy…and I might have one or two more related posts up my sleeve in the coming days, so be sure to check back.
You can check out more images from the shoot on Hannah’s blog by clicking here. And check out our amazing vendors as well! They were all amazing to work with and the best at their craft. (I’m trying to come up with an excuse to hire Hayley to come make my face look pretty again.) And you don’t have to be getting married to use their services. They’d be happy to help you out with any type of party or gift needs.
Hayley Bidez Makeup Artistry – Model Hair and Makeup
Events by Elaine – Product Staging and Table Design
Caroline of Batch Nashville – Guest Party Favors
Maria & Green Bean Paper Co – Invitations, Name Cards
Mary Love & Rosemary & Finch – Floral Arrangements
The Bride Room – Girl’s dresses
Southern Events – Linen and Tableware Rentals
Frosted Affair – Cake and Cake Pops
Reuben Victor – “Peace in the Valley” Signature cocktail
One of the first things Keith and I did as newlyweds (well, besides go on our honeymoon) was buy new couches. I didn’t own a couch and his had been around for a while and we just felt it was time to update a bit as we sought to turn “his” house into “our house.” After checking out a few stores, we found some light blue microfiber couches at Rooms-To-Go that fit our taste and our budget. We bought the sofa and matching loveseat and I just couldn’t get past how pretty the robin’s-egg-blue looked in our newly painted front room. But after the remodel of our house a year later, we started to feel that the love seat and couch scenario wasn’t as practical for our new space. And while the couches aren’t uncomfortable, they also never turned into that sink-into-and-take-a-long-nap sort of coziness we kind of hoped they would one day soften into.
As we talked about what sort of couch we might like to one day have, the conversation turned to a sectional. It seemed like a great way to be able to snuggle on the couch together while still having enough room, provide additional seating, and best utilize the space in our now-much-larger living room. So the great sectional search began. And as with all furniture purchases in our house (you guys know the drill by now) I was looking to find exactly what I wanted at exactly the price I was willing to pay and would settle for no less than fulfilling both of those goals. (If this is your first time “furniture shopping” with me here on the blog, you can catch up on my find-what-you-like and then at-the-price-you-want style by checking out my posts on buying an ottoman and my dining set, a chair, and light fixture…just to get you started.)
After considering possibly every sectional ever created, Keith and I decided that the Pearce sectional from Pottery Barn was precisely what we needed. We loved the style, the dimensions were perfect (dimensions were tricky for us as everything seemed to either be too long or too short) and the price was, well, close. We knew that a sectional was going to be something we were going to save up for since giant pieces of well-made furniture don’t typically come cheap, but we also wanted to get the best price we could. So we waited. And window shopped the Pottery Barn store in the mall several times. And requested practically every free fabric swatch you can request on the PB website. Unfortunately for us, the clerk told us that the “oatmeal linen” upholstery that we loved had never gone on sale in her several-year tenure at the store…a fact supported by the three times the piece went on sale in other fabrics since we first looked at it about 2 years ago.
And then. Behold. One day as I was surfing the web, I clicked over to look at “my sectional” again for fun and the oatmeal linen was on sale!!! I couldn’t believe it. Keith and I decided that maybe it was time to pull the trigger on our big purchase. But when we added the couch to the online cart, it showed a $125 “large item” delivery surcharge on top of the normal taxes and fees that get added on at the end. So we called the Pottery Barn store about 20 minutes away to see if we could waive the fee. Not only did the store offer to match the online sale price, but they added on some mysterious discount to erase the $125 delivery fee that ended up discounting it even further. A win all the way around!
We sold our other couches on Craigslist for exactly what we were asking for them (the girl who bought them was positively delighted and kept saying, “but they look NEW!”) and the sectional was delivered last Thursday….just in time for me to hit the Memorial Day sales this weekend to grab some new throw pillows. And I can for sure say that it’s everything we hoped it would be and more. It’s comfy, it brightens up the room, we can both curl up without anyone’s elbow in the other person’s ribcage. It’s lovely. And it could probably sleep a person or two as well if anyone needed to crash.
And I promise, next week I’ll blog about something that has nothing to do with furniture. Probably.
By now, you’ve probably realized that I can’t keep anything the same for too long when it comes to furniture. I love swapping out items for something cuter and more functional, particularly if I can get it at a bargain. But my quest for something new doesn’t always mean actually NEW….just new whatever place in the house needs something different. In fact, some of my most favorite pieces in our home are old, like a dresser that I’ve been using since just after college. It was my grandfather’s dresser when I was a kid and sometimes I expect to find his clean white hankies carefully folded in the top left-hand drawer when I open it.
But as all you married folks out there know, one dresser, no matter how fabulous, is not enough for two people. We’ve been on the hunt for a second dresser for a while now, limping along with a cool, but impractically designed inside, chifferobe that I bought at an antique store for cheap in college. The problem was that we loved my grandfather’s dresser so much that we didn’t want to give that up, but finding something that matched was impossible and even something that merely complimented it was proving a monumental task. I was about to just throw in the towel and buy a dresser, any old dresser, just to be able to put my laundry away.
A few weeks ago when Keith and I were in Mississippi helping with the garage sale at my grandmother’s house, my mom was trying to figure out what to do with the “good furniture.” We’d been able to sell anything that lacked sentimental or actual value, but there were several pieces remaining in the living room that were legitimately antique, were still in fabulous shape, and that quite frankly, no one could bear to part with because there were just too many memories attached. We were able to make space in my parent’s house for a couple of them by rearranging and selling a bookshelf of my mom’s, and several things were earmarked to go to my uncle’s apartment, but a few pieces still needed a place including a beautiful buffet that has been in my grandparent’s dining room as long as I can remember. It had been given to them by my great-grandmother who had used it in her house, so while I’m not sure exactly how old it is, I’m thinking that 75 years or so at least is a safe estimate.
And then it hit me. Just because it was intended to house dishes and silverware, china and goblets, didn’t mean it couldn’t be the perfect home for socks and t-shirts and running clothes. And while my grandmother always adorned the top with a teapot and tea cozy year round and tins upon tins of pecan sandies and other cookies at Christmas, that didn’t mean I couldn’t set all my perfume bottles and jewelry out on an old mirror. I bought some dark wood Old English scratch cover and polish, gave it a loving coat, and I’m really pleased with how it turned out. And love that not only is it practical, but it’s a little piece of history as well.
I first discovered the joys of coconut oil when Keith and I started our journey into the Paleo eating plan. It was a recommended alternative in cooking to butter or other fats and so we bought a jar and started using it in our cooking. Then my mother-in-law mentioned that not only did she use it in her cooking, but she often used it as a makeup-remover or in place of facial lotions. My love for the stuff was cemented when I got a painful sunburn on our trip to Mexico last year. I rubbed coconut oil into the burn, went to bed, and it was almost completely gone the next morning!
But then I started to see things online about a mysterious thing called “oil pulling” that was being credited for solving just about everything except world peace. What could this magical cure-all possibly be? So the other day armed with some spare time and intrigue, I did some research. Since the list of potential benefits is high and the cost is low, I decided it was worth giving it a try so this past Friday night I purchased a gigantic tub of coconut oil from CostCo for $14 and Saturday morning I started my regimen. But I’m getting ahead of myself and you’re probably thinking, what the heck IS it? I’ll give you a brief run down.
What Is Oil Pulling?
Oil pulling is a practice supposedly rooted in some ancient medicinal practice from Asia. You swish the oil around in your mouth and it supposedly absorbs or “pulls” all the toxins from your mouth into the oil, then you spit it out. You’ll want to use the highest quality oil you can find, of course as it is the purest and has the most benefits. And just what benefits does this practice have? Well, here’s a list of what I’ve found online:
* Helping to strengthen the gums, jaws and teeth.
* Helping to prevent gum disease, cavities and even gingivitis
* Helping to prevent bad breath
* Provide a holistic method and remedy for dealing with bleeding gums
* Helping to prevent dryness of the mouth, throat and the lips
* Helping to prevent general soreness around the area of the jaw (such as TMJ sufferers)
* Relief for migraines and headaches
* Reducing arthritic inflammation
* Helping to reduce the signs of eczema
* Helping to reduce insomnia
* Reducing the effects of a hangover after consuming too much alcohol
* Helping to support the normal function of the kidneys
* Helping to reduce the symptoms of bronchitis
* May help to reduce pain
* Some oil pullers have even reported that it helped to improve their vision
- Oil pulling is apparently most effective when you do it first thing in the morning before you eat, drink or brush your teeth.
- Take a teaspoon (approx) of coconut oil and stick it in your mouth. (I stick it in there in its room temperature state and it quickly melts in your mouth. However, it does make me gag a little at first, so if you have serious texture issues, you might want to melt it for about 10 seconds in the microwave.)
- Set a timer for 20 minutes (no more, no less) and swish the oil around in your mouth. (This would be a great time to take a shower, read your morning devotional, cook breakfast check your email, whatever. Doing an activity makes the time pass quickly!)
- At the end of 20 minutes, spit it into the trash can. DO NOT SWALLOW (remember, it’s got all those toxins in it!). DO NOT SPIT DOWN THE DRAIN (or your drains will quickly clog.)
- Brush your teeth and go about your day.
- Repeat each morning.
Opposition and Disclaimers
Because I do my research carefully, I checked out both sides of the story before trying it, or bringing this blog to my readers. And just as there are millions who claim it heals everything from acne to cancer, there are an equal number of folks who say it’s total malarkey. I checked out what Snopes.com had to say (they think it’s neither helpful nor harmful) and also found this blog of a girl who had a crazy-bad reaction after “pulling” for 2 days with coconut oil (she had done 2 treatments a day, so 4 treatments). Other folks have said that while they had a reaction to or couldn’t handle the texture of coconut oil pulling but have had positive results with safflower, sunflower or olive oil (the blog author referenced above switched oils and did fine!). However, a note of caution, the Paleo guidelines recommend you avoid safflower and sunflower oils at all costs, so there’s that to consider too.
Granted I’m only a few days in and I don’t have any particular horrible maladies. I’m not sure that it will really affect the dry scalp that I battle in the winter (although I certainly hope so) and while I do think that my teeth look a tiny bit whiter, that could really honestly be the power of suggestion. But here’s what I DO know. My mouth feels cleaner than it’s ever felt. Like straight-from-the-dentist clean. And it lasts most of the day even after I’ve eaten. And it’s amazingly relaxing. I’ve been using the time spent oil-pulling to read my Lenten devotional and pray and that combined with the swishing is such an amazing way to start my morning. So if I have a super clean mouth and a relaxed mindset going into my day, that’s enough reason for me to keep doing it.
I guess the bottom line is that oil-pulling, like ANY out-of-the-ordinary health practice, probably isn’t for everybody. Listen to YOUR body! If you have a particular health condition you might want to check with your doctor (or dentist as well in this case) to make sure they don’t know of anything that might conflict or react with your medicines or illness. And know that results can vary….something that cures one person might not cure another, etc. But so far…my experiences have been positive. I’d love to hear your thoughts! Have you tried it? Liked it? Heard of it? Hated it?